And Then There Were Two

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Cee Neuner’s Black & White Photo Challenge -June 22, 2017

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Paper Roses

Daily Prompt:  Paper

Does anyone remember the song Paper Roses recorded by Marie Osmond in 1974?  I loved this song.  It came out the year before I was married.  I always thought Marie had a beautiful voice.  I wondered what had happened to her until I began seeing her appear on the TV advertising Nutri System.

I haven’t heard this song in years.  It was the first thing that entered my mind when I saw today’s prompt.  Isn’t that funny?  That song is forty three years old and I don’t think I have thought about it in years.  Here are the lyrics.

I realize the way your eyes deceive me
With tender looks that I mistook for love
So take away the flowers that you gave me
And send the kind that you remind me of

Paper roses, paper roses,
Oh how real those roses seem to me
But they’re only imitation
Like your imitation love for me

I thought that you would be a perfect lover
You seemed so full of sweetness at the start
But like a big red rose that’s made of paper
There isn’t any sweetness in your heart

Paper roses, paper roses,
Oh how real those roses seem to me
But they’re only imitation
Like your imitation love for me

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The Heron

Weekly Photo Challenge:  Transient

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This heron visit the marshes of the lake in Kissimmee.  These beautiful birds come and go throughout the area visiting little ponds.  If you aren’t careful, they will walk right in front of your car crossing the street as they travel from one body of water to the next.

Wanda

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The Park

Daily Prompt:  Loop

I spent yesterday afternoon at a park in Kissimmee.  It is really a lovely place to visit. There is a beautiful lake with trails that go along it.  Many people go there to walk or jog for their daily exercise on the loop around the park.  For the little ones there are a couple of playgrounds with really cute playground equipment.

The gardens are lovely with different plants and flowers.  Many birds stop there on their travels.  Alligators swim freely in the lake too, so wading  or swimming is prohibited. Benches are placed through out the park to sit and people watch.

As I walked around this beautiful place, I noticed that there was a lot of trash thrown onto the ground.  I was saddened that so many people don’t have any respect for this wonderful environment.  I can only imagine what their houses look like.  Just think how much money our communities could save if they did not have to pay people to pick up trash every day.  That money could be used for programs for the needy.

Despite my sadness over the trash thrown carelessly around, I did enjoy my visit to this wonderful spot.

Wanda

 

 

 

 

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Overstepping

Daily Prompt:  Meddle

There is a fine line between offering advice and meddling in someone’s business.  I am sure that we have all gone through the over zealous advice of parents, parents in law and friends.  Everyone thinks they know what you should do.  Unfortunately, if this behavior is not put into check, relationships can be affected and even destroyed.

I remember when I was young and getting married.  Of course I had my own ideas of how I wanted things done.  My mother in law did things completely different than the way I had been taught.  Something as simple as how I washed the dishes was called into question.

For years I bit my tongue.  I was reluctant to speak my mind.  But the day came when I had had enough.  Maybe it was because I was tired from being up with the baby and was also working.  I can’t remember the specifics of that day except I was told, in my house that I wasn’t doing something the way she would have done it.

I exploded.  I had had enough.  I told my mother in law that although I loved her, and she was my husband’s mother, she needed to back off.  I also told her that unless she wanted to support me and take over my bills, what we did in our home was really none of her business.

Needless to say, she was hurt.  I was immediately sorry that I had told her off like that. Unfortunately you can’t un-ring a bell.  She left and we didn’t speak for a few days.  My husband had spoken to her and she told him about the incident.  You can imagine how that conversation went.  I have to say that he did back me up with the unwanted advice, but was sorry it had come to a head the way it did.

Finally my mother in law and I had to see each other.  It was a bit uncomfortable at first, but we found our way back to a good relationship after a long time.

Now I am a mother in law and a mother of grown kids.  I catch my self starting to offer advice that is not appreciated and I stop right away.  I have explained to my kids that they will always be my babies no matter how old they get and that I will always want to help and protect them.  Then I admit that I need to back off and shut up.  They give me that tolerant smile that all of us get from our grown kids.

My point is that I would not even realize what I was doing if I hadn’t gone through a very uncomfortable issue with my own mother in law.  So, I am eternally thankful to her for teaching me the boundaries I need to respect when I deal with my grown kids.

Wanda

 

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Week 7| Grateful for Kindness — The Richness of a Simple Life

Attention Kindness Challenge participants! In this post, you’ll find: this week’s theme prompt

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Dragon Fly

Weekly Photo Challenge: Focus

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I shot this today at the Lakeshore Park.  This dragon fly was above in the tree.

Wanda

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