No Whining

100 Word Challenge:  Whine

One of my passions is quilting. I learned how to quilt in 2005 after moving to North Carolina. Since I began I’ve taken many classes from internationally known teachers. One teacher, Bonnie Hunter, http://quiltville.com, designs beautiful scrap quilts.

Bonnie offers a mystery quilt she designed each year online. The steps are usually made up of many pieces cut and put together. You do not get the pattern at one time. Hence it’s called a mystery quilt.

One of the first thing she mentions in her instructions for participating is “No Whining” She actually includes it in her directions.
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Wanda

 

Happy March

I just got home from my visit with my son and his family in Miami Beach.  What a great time I had. Isabella is starting to walk and is just so cute.  It was so nice to get reacquainted with her.  She sees me all the time on face time, but in person she was a little shy at first.  By the time I left we were great friends.

For Isabella’s birthday, her Aunt Kelly made her a tutu.  It is so cute.  Here is my little angel in it.

On Monday we went to the Miami Zoo.  It was such a nice day to be out walking.  The animals were all so cooperative and active.  I fed a giraffe.  It was pretty cool.  Isabella had fallen asleep before we got to them.

I hated to leave Isabella in Miami.  It’s just awful when you live far from your grandchildren.  I finally got my other three living close to me and now I have another one so far away.

My flight home yesterday was just awful.  I was at the airport at 6:30 in the morning.  After boarding the plane, we sat there for over 2 hours.  Then deplaned!  Sat in the terminal for another hour before boarding the same plane again.  Finally took off, but missed my connecting flight.  By the time I got into Wilmington, it was 4 in the afternoon.  My suitcase didn’t arrive until later and was delivered sometime last night.  It was a very long day.  Needless to say I won’t be getting much done today.
Except maybe some laundry.  I leave again on Friday for Alannah’s dance competition for the weekend.

Glad to be home.

Abortion

I guess if you visit my blog often you realize I am against abortion.  Making abortion illegal and stopping our tax dollars from paying for abortion on demand is very dear to me.  There are so many other programs our millions of tax dollars would benefit from.  For one it would help lower our national debt.

I believe we all have equal rights.  No one should have the right to murder.  It is actually illegal to commit murder right?  I have yet to hear of anyone who becomes pregnant say I am expecting an embryo, or a lump of tissue.  No, we, and I use the term we as a societal pronoun, say we are going to have a baby.  Merriam-Webster defines baby as:

plural babies
1 a (1) :  an extremely young child; especially :  infant (2) :  an extremely young animal
b :  the youngest of a group

2 a :  one that is like a baby (as in behavior)
b :  something that is one’s special responsibility, achievement, or interest

3 slang a :  girl, woman —often used in address
b :  boy, man —often used in address

4:  person, thing

When does life begin?

“The American College of Pediatricians concurs with the body of scientific evidence that human life begins at conception – fertilization…. Scientific and medical discoveries over the past three decades have only verified and solidified this age-old truth. At the completion of the process of fertilization, the human creature emerges as a whole, genetically distinct, individuated zygotic living human organism, a member of the species homo sapiens, needing only the proper environment in order to grow and develop. The difference between the individual in its adult stage and in its zygotic stage is not one of personhood but of development. The Mission of the American College of Pediatricians is to enable all children to reach their optimal physical and emotional health and well-being from the moment of conception.”
When Human Life Begins, American College of Pediatricians, March 2004

“After fertilization has taken place a new human being has come into being…[this] is no longer a matter of taste or opinion, it is not a metaphysical contention, it is plain experimental evidence….” – Dr Jerome LeJeune, Professor of Genetics at the University of Descartes, Paris, discoverer of the chromosome pattern of Down’s Syndrome, and Nobel Prize Winner, Report, Subcommittee on Separation of Powers to Senate Judiciary Committee S-158, 97th Congress, 1st Session 1981.

I have quoted the above from  Just The Facts .  Take a look at the site, it is full of information about when life begins.

Now, if you look at the definition of life, and read what actually happens during conception they are in agreement.  Live has begun.  This is leaving religion out of it.  This is simply the biological, medical and moral evidence for life beginning at conception; and therefore since our Constitution ensures the basic right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, unborn babies have rights because they are life.  Plain and simple.

For those of you who do believe in God, and I am one of those folks, He creates our life  He knits us in our mother’s womb.  He knows the number of hairs on our head.  The color of our eyes, how tall we will be, how smart we will be.  What talents we will have.  For me and for all of us, it is not a matter of simple biology, but a miracle that takes place during conception.  If you don’t believe this, just ask a woman who can’t conceive.  I believe that God has a plan for each and every one of us. Even for those non-believers.  Just because you don’t believe doesn’t mean that God doesn’t exist and that what you are living is His plan.  I know that it is God’s plan that will unfold in my life, not my plan.

All life is a gift to be treasured, loved, nurtured and lived to the fullest extent guaranteed to us by our constitution.

Have a good one.

What A Glorious Day

Today is just beautiful! The sun is shining, it’s in the 70’s and best of all I am finally starting to feel human again. As if that isn’t enough, I woke up to the cutest video from my son of he and Isabella at the Child’s Museum in Miami Beach.  Her giggle is infectious.  Just look how cute she is.  

Has anyone seen the new fabric line, Tag by Cheryl Arkinson from Connecting Threads?  I think it is so cute.  I got a look this morning when I was reading my email.  I love black and white anyway, and the patterns are too cute.  Pop on over to Connecting Threads and take a look.  I have used their fabric several times and I have been quite pleased with it.  It washes well and is very affordable.  Now, I don’t make heirloom quilts.  The quilts I make are to be used and loved to bits!

Everything Happens For A Reason

I was supposed to be at my quilt guild’s outreach workshop today working on quilts for our local fire department.  However, last night our well pump stopped working.  Because there are no lights where the well is, we were unable to do anything about it last night.  So, my plans had to change.  My mom always said that “Everything happens for a reason.”  Mom really believed this and through the years I grew to believe it too.  I saw the blessings that came from these unexpected things.

This made me think about some of the things in my life that I tried to plan.  I can remember wanting to go to a specific event and a family commitment prevented me from going with my friends.  Later I learned that my friends found themselves in some sort of trouble.  I was sorry for them, but so relieved I was not with them.

I had my first child at the age of 20.  My plan was to have four children before the age of 30.  There are 10 years between my fist and second child.  Well, apparently my plan was not what God had planned for me.  I had my four children, but on His timetable.

Learning to live happily with God’s plan for us is difficult sometimes.  We are always in a hurry for what we want and often unhappy when things don’t turn out our way.  It’s important for us to trust in God and His plan.  Learning to follow God’s will is important for us to have a good relationship with Him.

“. . . it is presumptuous in me to wish to choose my path, because I cannot tell which path is best for me. I must leave it to the Lord, Who knows me, to lead me by the path which is best for me, so that in all things His will may be done.”

― Teresa of Ávila, Interior Castle

God bless!

Happy Birthday Samantha

Today is my youngest daughter’s birthday.  She turned 33 today.  I can’t believe it.  She is a Winnie the Pooh fan.   Where does the time go?  I’m not getting any older.  Sam is a wonderful daughter and friend.  She’s beautiful, smart, and fun.  I am so blessed to have her in my world.

She and her husband are spending this evening with friends.  They are going to an escape room.  One of those places where you have to solve a mystery to get out of the room.  It sounds like fun.

I’m excited about the Bristol race tonight.  It’s a short track and usually a lot of fun to watch.  And I am hoping that Kasey has a good race tonight.  He really needs a win.

Heading out, I have errands to run.  Keep cool.

Friday Reviews

Candle in the Darkness (Refiner's Fire Book, #1)Candle in the Darkness by Lynn Austin

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Caroline Fletcher lives in the city of Richmond, Virginia with wealthy parents. Her father owns slaves and as Caroline begins to question the morality of owning them her mother dies after yet another still birth. Her aunt from Philadelphia takes her back home with her and Caroline stays with her for two years. While in the north, she meets Robert who is quickly taken with Caroline. He takes her to abolitionist lectures which increase her desire to do something for the slaves.

After returning to Richmond she meets Charles, they fall in love and plan their wedding. Three weeks before their wedding the Civil War begins. She is torn between her belief that owning slaves is immoral and her home in the south. She and Charles don’t see the war the same way. Five years after her engagement, the war ends. Charles cannot accept the things she has done throughout the war, even though she has nursed him back to health. His family and he dismiss her from their lives leaving Caroline alone with only her slaves who have only ever showed her love.

This is a story about love and hate, slavery and freedom, faith in God and the choices that must be made during this terrible time in our history. I enjoyed this book very much and recommend it to anyone who likes historical fiction.

Out of a Dream (Sandy Cove #1)Out of a Dream by Rosemary Hines

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is the first book in the Sandy Cove series by Rosemary Hines. Michelle and Steve have moved into their first home in Portland. Steve is working many hours at the law office he is a junior partner in. Michelle feels alone and isolated having left her family and friends in Southern California. She meets Monica at yoga, and they become friends. The yoga instructor introduces them to tarot cards and then to an owner of a bookstore. Michelle and Monica sign up for a class taught by the very handsome and charismatic Trevor who sets his sights on Michelle. She attends a seminar with him deluding herself that they are just friends. She definitely feels this attraction to him. She is lonely with Steve working so hard, but she loves her husband. Trevor makes his move and kisses Michelle. Michelle pulls away and from that point it is never spoken about again.

Michelle’s father has attempted suicide. He is unsuccessful, and winds up in the ICU with multiple brain injuries. Michelle goes to the hospital with the rest of the family and it is there that she sees that the New Age spirituality that she has been studying does not give her the strength she gets from God. I enjoyed this book very much.

Butterfly GardenButterfly Garden by Annette Blair

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Sara is a midwife in and Ohio Amish community. She is called to her friend Abby’s home to deliver her fourth baby. When she arrives Adam, Abby’s husband is waiting for her on the front porch. He gives her a hard time when she tells him he is killing his wife having babies so close together. He finally lets her in to go to Abby, and discovers Abby is dead and the baby is wrapped up and in the cradle by the bed. Sara lifts the sheets and discovers that Abby had bled to death.

Adam is filled with demons from his abusive childhood and tells Sara she must take his children. She fights him on this, but relents. She falls in love with the girls. The time for her to return the girls to their father is pushed back until the time when Adam falls from a tree and injures himself. Sara moves into his house to nurse him back to health. Adam begins to fall in love with Sara, but he denies what he is feeling. The Bishop gets involved and the outcome of their hearing is that they must marry. They fall madly in love with each other and Adam learns that he can love without being abusive like his father.

I enjoyed this book, however, there are some scenes which are more adult that most of the book.

Life in the Iron MillsLife in the Iron Mills by Rebecca Harding Davis

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is a short story about one man’s life in the iron mill town in Virginia. It’s a little difficult to read, but I found it interesting and it gives the reader much to think about.

15th Affair15th Affair by James Patterson

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Lindsay, Cindy, Claire and Yuki, the Women’s Murder Club,  find themselves involved in solving the murder of four people at the Four Seasons Hotel. Lindsay’s husband Joe disappears. While doing surveillance on one of the murdered man’s house, Lindsay sees her husband go past the same house and is caught on the video recording. A 777 was hit by a missile when approaching the airport and it exploded killing everyone in the plane and two people on the ground and traumatizing all the kids in the schools in the explosion site.

This is not just about the murders at the Four Seasons, it’s bigger. CIA is involved and Lindsay discovers that Joe has been working for the CIA since the time their daughter was born. Lindsay is devastated that Joe has been lying to her. The spies are from the Chinese government and one of the CIA agents is changing sides. In the end she is caught and dealt with. Joe sends Lindsay home and he goes back to the CIA headquarters. When he goes home to see Lindsay and Julie, he is not asked to stay.

I really liked the book, but there isn’t much that James Patterson writes that I don’t like. I give it 4.5 stars.

Wild Wednesday

Red Fox

This is the red fox.  We have had one living on our property for a few years.  Although, we haven’t seen him in a while.  They are hard to spot as they like to do most of their foraging at night.  That’s why we were so surprised that our little red fox walked right passes us one afternoon.  He just ignored us.  And he often would wonder into the front of our property on his way to the other side of the woods.  I love living in the country, I get to see a lot of  critters.  🙂

Well I have almost met my reading challenge of 100 books for the year.  I have completed 89 books and I am actually on my 90th now.  I think that it’s safe to say I’ll get to my goal.  I haven’t been doing much of anything but reading.  I told hubby today that I have to get my but in gear.  I have quilts to make for Christmas for my grandchildren.  And it’s already August!  Then there is my challenge quilt due in November.  Think I’ll get it all done?

Have a good day and keep your eye out for a red fox.

Friday Reviews

The WitnessesThe Witnesses by James Patterson

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I love James Patterson’s books. This doesn’t disappoint. A family in hiding. A suspicious man keeping them together. A neighbor who keeps watch expecting the worst. All this leading to a surprise ending.

The Designer Bag at the Garbage DumpThe Designer Bag at the Garbage Dump by Jackie Macgirvin

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Wow! This is a wonderful book for anyone who has questions about their faith in God. Julie finds herself on a train to New York having something to eat with Jesus. He tells her that she has been chosen by him to do some work for him. Jesus gives her a bible and tells her. When she gets off the train she finds herself in India instead of New York.

She doesn’t speak the language, loses her suitcase and is completely sickened by the smells and noise of the city. Every time her cab stops, beggars appear with their hands grabbing at her. She is dropped off and left by herself.

Julie meets orphaned children living on a garbage heap. They are digging through the garbage to find something to eat. Jesus tells her to feed his sheep. Julie’s designer dress is turned into rags and is filthy. She is sleeping on the ground in the dirt. Her hair is matted and dirty. She is exhausted. But she begins to buy food for the children. They begin to depend on her feeding them. She loses her heart to them. Her story continues with her learning to trust Jesus and learn obedience to his plan for her and the orphans.

As Jesus’ plan unfolds, other people become involved with the orphans. A church rents a house for the children and Julie assumes responsibility of the monthly rent. She gets all of the children new clothing. She sees them happy in their new home.

It’s time for Julie to go home. She has a newborn little girl and a 10 year old boy that are going home with her. She can’t wait for her husband and son to meet the rest of their family. As she walks off the train, Michael and Logan are there to greet her. She introduces them to the baby and little boy. They are welcomed into the family with open arms.

I really loved this story. I thought it was well written with a great perspective of what it means to know the Lord.

Play Dead (An Allie Babcock Mystery)Play Dead by Leslie O’Kane

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is a story about the murder of a wealthy eccentric woman, named Hannah Jones, who has a dog names Sage. Hannah is very enthusiastic about the no animal product life style. She teaches vegetarian cooking classes and comes in contact with Beth Gleason one of her students. Beth has become embroiled in Hannah’s life and has been taken by Sage.

When Hannah is found dead, her death is ruled a suicide. She has had cancer and the idea is not out of the real of possibilities. Her neighbors take the dog in, but decide they cant keep him. They take the dog to the animal shelter. Beth Gleason has left her name at the shelter asking to be notified if a collie turns up. Beth is ecstatic when they call her to come get Sage.

Allie Babcock has just moved to Boulder and has opened a dog psychologist office. She is a guest on a radio program and gets a call in from Beth Gleason stating her dog is not eating and he has reacted terribly when a man has come near him. The host of the show tells everyone that the dog can identify the murder of Hannah Jones. Allie tells Beth to meet her at her office so that she can tell if the dog has any issues. Beth Gleason is found stabbed to death by Allie after Sage shows up at her office alone and his leash has blood on it. The story continues with many twists and turns with so many suspects in the murders.

I enjoyed the book very much.

My Father's House: a novelMy Father’s House: a novel by Rose Chandler Johnson

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Lily Rose Cates is a woman trying to find herself. Her father had died when she was sixteen and she never got over her loss. Her mother withdrew into herself after his death. Thankfully Lily Rose had Annie Ruth who became like a mother to her.

Lily Rose went to college and became close friends with Julie. She was her best friend. They planned to go to France after school and visit all the great museums. However, Julie falls in love with her French professor and they elope. Lily Rose is despondent because of all the plans to travel have fallen apart.

After graduation, Lily Rose stays in the little house that she has shared with her two roommates and gets a job for the paper. She also works at a flower shop part time. She has no social life and is lonely. She flies to New York to spend time with her cousin. They have a wonderful time and Julie meets Manuel, their handsome waiter at dinner. He asks for her phone number and she gives it to him.
A whirlwind romance ensues and they marry. The honeymoon is barely over when she discovers that her handsome, considerate husband is abusive. She loses a baby. Lily Rose stays for 2 1/2 years then realizes that she must leave for her own safety.  Her friend Julie who lives in Canada helps her get away.

Lily Rose has the house her daddy grew up in and Manuel knows nothing about the house. She travels to Georgia where she begins the process of healing. She meets her neighbors and they all had known her as a little girl from when she and her daddy had come to visit with her Aunt. While walking to the town from the highway, a little dog joins her journey. She falls in love with the dog.

She meets Sam when her dog eats a bag of Hershey Kisses.  A friendship develops and they begin to spend a lot of time together. Unfortunately Manuel finds Lily Rose and forces himself on her. Sam shows up the next morning after her husband had left. She is beside herself. She tells Sam her husband was there. He walks away from her. Lily Rose is pregnant. And feels alone again,

This is a story of fear, loss, grief, strength, growth, love and a relationship with God. Sam finds his way back to Lily Rose and they find the happiness they both had been searching for. Lily Rose gets her forever after.

From the Heart (Sandy Cove #5)From the Heart by Rosemary Hines

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is book 5 of the Sandy Cove Series, but it is a great standalone book too. I didn’t realize that it was part of a series until after I had read it.

Joan is grieving over the loss of her husband. She feels alone and lost. Not wanting to live with her daughter in Portland, she insists she is staying in the home she shared with her husband. She has wonderful friends and a neighbor who check in on her. After injuring her back, her daughter Sheila begins to look for a place for Joan near her. Joan is slowly coming to terms with the fact that she really needs to be closer to family. As she is going through things, she finds a box with a letter attached to it from her husband. It’s marked do not open until Christmas. Joan falls and fractures her arm. Her move to Portland comes much sooner that she had expected. Joan has spent her life as a minister’s wife and her relationship with God helps her to make this change. I really liked the book. I had never read any of Rosemary Hines’ work before. I plan to read the other books in the series.